Happy? New Year!
It's still January, so I'm still saying Happy New Year. Plus, my birthday was January 15th —two weeks into my personal new year so it’s still a valid saying. By the way, my birthday dinner at Dogon by Chef Kwame Onwuachi was delicious!
How are you doing?
Trick question these days, I know. For so many of us, the answer feels impossible to find. I don't want to be a downer, delusional, or dishonest. So instead, I say without hesitation: “I’m doing the best I can.” Most people answer back, “Me too.”
I give that to you to borrow.
2025 was a rollercoaster - European book tour, my largest speaking fee, impactful work spanning hunger, animal welfare, mental health, housing, prison reform and education. Also: losing a family member, a client facing an intense investigation, and more I won't list here.
Now it's 2026. I still wake up in the middle of the night sometimes (perimenopause? state-sanctioned violence? my dreams?), but despite the lack of sleep, I feel more charged and focused than ever. My business, Hook & Fasten onboarded a new client. Speaking gigs are confirmed. I'm writing again. I've mapped out international fellowships, designed a spring course, and increased our charitable giving budget.
Personally? More time with friends and family. And most importantly, beating Wes at Rummikub.
I don't know how long this hyper-focused phase will last - my vibe switches like the wind. But for now, I'm squeezing every ounce of it. Stay tuned, there are some exciting projects on the horizon that I can't wait to share with you.
My community challenge to you: Please continue to show up for those around you and get involved—especially with local organizations and mutual aid networks. This country is experiencing levels of violence and systemic harm that have transcended our collective desire to disassociate. People need food, shelter, legal support, and community care right now. Whether it's volunteering at a food bank, contributing to a bail fund, supporting immigrant defense networks, or showing up to a city council meeting—your presence matters. Don't wait for the perfect moment. Start where you are with what you have.
My personal challenge to you: Make room for your dreams. Corner off an afternoon to daydream. Write it down, draw it out, dance it out, or take one small step to bring it to life. Just one thing a week toward your dream. No matter how big or small. Our dreams aren't luxuries, they're lifelines. So protect them fiercely. Nurture them intentionally. Your mental health, your joy, your future self will thank you.
Oh and before you go…I’m doing a Black History Month Book BOGO Book Sale to benefit mutual aid in Philadelphia. Buy my book and get a book by a Black author complimentary. While supplies last!
Love, Deesh
